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| Question: I’m not popular in school, don’t play sports, and not good looking. How can I get people to like me? |
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| Grandma’s Answer: Wow, it sounds like you’ve pretty much given up on yourself! Not being popular has nothing to do with your looks or your athleticism. Yes, it’s true that sometimes popularity comes with those things, but it doesn’t last long if you’re not a good friend. To be a good friend you must first be a friend to yourself. I know that may sound confusing, but if you don’t like who you are, how do you expect other people to like you? When we are born we each are unique and have a purpose in this world. It’s important to recognize that over anything else! Make a list of STRENGTHS that you have, i.e. intelligent, have a good voice, play the drums, courageous, strong; whatever comes to mind. Look over your list and appreciate these strengths from the position of someone who hasn’t got them. It will give you perspective and help you to see your worth. Begin by noticing people who have similar interests to you. Make small conversations and be sure that you LISTEN to them. People love to talk about themselves. Give this approach at least three months. I think it will work for you. |
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